“Wives, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands, that even if some do not obey the word, they, without a word, may be won by the conduct of their wives, when they observe your chaste conduct accompanied by fear.” (1Pe 3:1-2)
How often do we read over these parts of the Word and ignore them because they are directed at women or men as opposed to the whole body. I know that I am guilty of this and have missed much in the way of wisdom because of it. So other than the obvious message to wives, what else does this passage have for us to learn.
As believers our relationships are not always fully mutual when it comes to love, attention and conduct. I can think of many such relationships that I have had with others where there was a disconnect in one of these three areas that led to frustration on my part. My frustration in these cases was a result of not exercising patience and love while trusting that God would work these situations out. In the case of lovehave you ever felt like someone (whether spouse, friend, or acquaintance) simply wasn’t considerate in the way that treated you? Perhaps in the category of attentionyou feel as though your calls go unreturned or conversations are very one sided. Or worse yet, you have people at work or in your family that conduct themselves in a way that is completely outside of the way that you know God has called us to act.
I have a close business associate who I have given a birthday gift to for many years. This person has never given me anything on my birthday and most often doesn’t even say “thanks” when presented with the gift. I give this person gifts out of love and continue to do so but have to admit that it has been a challenge at times battling with my frustration over the situation. So what should our response be to people in situations like these?
In the case of my business associate I can honestly say that the advice I get from most people, including Christian brothers and sisters, it that I should stop giving this person gifts because they clearly do not appreciate it. But this is not the right thing to do; we are not to be conformed to this world and its ideas of right and wrong, we have a higher calling. The relationships that God has allowed us to experience are not games to be won but rather opportunities to glorify God by showing His love. Solomon writes:
“To do evil is like sport to a fool, But a man of understanding has wisdom.” Pro 10:23
No, I will continue to give this person the birthday gift despite the counsel of the world because I want him to see the love of Christ in me. It seems like a small and simple thing but it always seems that these are the hardest and most important to walk with Christ in.
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